I always used to blame everyone and everything around me for my relationship problems which made me never look at the core problem which is in myself. My own actions were the main reason for my relationship problems and I will tell you how did I know this because knowing something about my own actions that are based on my own thinking is hard to know but once I changed my actions regardless of what I think or feel, things around me changed. Let me start by telling you what I blamed, I blamed: My mom My siblings My teachers The environment The government Everything I felt I was not successful to build any relationship with anybody. Everybody made excuses to know me, I always felt misunderstood and felt lonely deep inside of me. All the techniques written in many books and around the internet didn't work for me, things like: How to build rapport with whom I talk to Using body language to understand others Categorizing people to visionary, auditory or sensual Didn't work for me after applying them, the only thing that worked with me is to change from within not to react on what others do. I realized that building a healthy relationship needs from me to try never act upon my character defects and to name character defects by their names so that I can build healthier relationship not based on character defects but instead on virtuous principles. Here are some defects for any character so that you can know their names, character defects are like: Social insecurity Sexual insecurity Materialistic insecurity Inferiority Ego Regardless of what I thought or felt, I focused on my actions not to be based on my character defects but on virtuous principles. I asked others for help so that I listened to voices that are outside my mind. This is when I chose to ask who have similar situations to my situations so that he or she can help me with the best way possible. You should also name virtuous principles by their names so that when you replace a character defect that you know you will act upon it you change it to a principle, these principles are like: Honest Have intention to change Open mind This is when you have the right relationship advice as a teenager. People and everything around will never change till you change the way you deal with people and everything and to see how you deal with everything in the current time you should have an open mind to listen to other people when they mirror your actions. This is when you start to change to have better relationships.